We spend so much of our lives on autopilot, going through the motions, ticking off tasks, filling our days with things that don’t really light us up… but still doing them, because it’s what we’ve always done.
Maybe you’ve felt it too; that quiet nudge in the back of your mind, wondering: Is this really it? Is this how I want to keep living?
If you’ve been craving more ease, more joy, more intention in your day-to-day life, this is your reminder: you don’t have to wait for a milestone or a massive life shift to start living differently.
Real change doesn’t happen overnight. It happens in the in-between moments. The tiny, ordinary decisions you make when no one’s watching.
And the best part?
You don’t have to have it all figured out to begin. You just have to start paying attention.
Below, I’m sharing the small mindset shifts and intentional living techniques that have helped me step out of autopilot and into a more intentional rhythm — one that actually feels good to live in.
6 Intentional Living Techniques to Transform Your Daily Rituals
1. Start With One Honest Question
When you wake up in the morning, walk your sleepy self into the bathroom, and start your routine, do you reach for a facial cleanser you’re actually excited to use?
What about your toothpaste? Does it make you want to use up the whole tube?
And your pajamas — are they a set that makes you feel cute and put together, or are you still rocking that frumpy tank top you don’t even know why you own?
Now pause and ask: Do I actually enjoy using this?
That might sound trivial, but it’s a powerful filter. One that reveals whether your life is filled with intentional choices, or just automatic ones you’ve never questioned.
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2. Make Room for the Future You
A lot of the stuff we use every day? We didn’t exactly choose it. We inherited it from our family, our past self, or a moment when convenience beat alignment.
But just because it’s familiar doesn’t mean it belongs.
Look around your space, your habits, and your routines: Do they reflect the person you’re becoming or the one you’ve outgrown?
Even something as small as swapping your toothpaste can create a ripple effect. When you choose things that feel good, that reflect care, it tells your brain: “I matter. My experience matters.”
That one decision sets a tone that supports a life that’s grounded, peaceful, and aligned.
3. Let Small Choices Spark Big Shifts
Let’s talk about the micro-moments. The ones that don’t always look like self-care on Instagram (which is a perfectly curated facade btw). I’m talking about the less glamorous choices too.
Like reaching for caffeine before eating real food.
Falling asleep to TikToks because silence feels uncomfortable.
Skipping your skincare routine (again) because you’re too tired.
Forgetting to eat until your blood sugar crashes.
These might seem small on the surface, but they’re actually huge opportunities. Every one of them is a mirror — a reflection of how you’re showing up for yourself right now. Not as something to judge, but as a signal: you’re not at your end goal yet. There’s still work to do.
But thinking about the entire list of things you want to change can be overwhelming, at first. That’s why it’s important to take inventory and make a plan to tackle each item one at a time. I call this process habit auditing.
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Habit Auditing Challenge:
- Draw a line down a piece of paper.
- Left side: daily patterns that drain or dull your energy.
- Right side: one small way to redirect each one, even if it’s just 1% better.
You’re not aiming for perfection. You’re building momentum.
For me, procrastination is my oldest, most stubborn habit. I’ll start 6 things without hesitation…but fishing them? That’s the uphill part.
A little over a year ago, I started repeating a simple phrase in my head whenever I felt myself slipping: Finish running the program. Over and over, until the task was done.
It might sound basic, but it shifted everything. That little mantra helps me stay grounded instead of letting my brain spiral into distraction or overwhelm. It helps me complete things. Not perfectly. Just fully.
I recommend using this mantra or a similar one that will help you while you work on swapping your old habits with new ones!
4. Upgrade the Ordinary
Living with intention doesn’t start with a vision board.
It starts in the quiet, ordinary moments — the ones you’ve been rushing through without a second thought.
It starts when you pause before autopiloting through your morning and ask yourself: What would make me feel more like the version of me I’m growing into?
Not the version that’s just surviving the day, but the one that’s fully alive, rooted, and aligned.
Maybe it looks like:
- Wearing a cozy outfit that makes you feel at home in your body
- Pouring your smoothie into a glass that feels special, not just functional
- Taking time for the full skincare routine — the one that feels indulgent, loving, and restorative, even when your schedule is tight
These choices might seem small. They might look surface-level. But they carry weight. Because they aren’t just aesthetic upgrades; they’re energetic ones. They’re declarations that say: I matter. My experience matters. I’m worth showing up for.
Each micro-decision becomes a vote for the life you want to live — the one where you feel supported, grounded, and in tune with yourself.
And the best part? You don’t have to wait until you’ve achieved some big milestone to start. You can begin right now, in the middle of your messy day, by choosing one small thing that feels like a “yes” to who you’re becoming.
Because when you start honoring your own energy in the smallest ways, everything else starts to shift.
5. Claim One Ritual That’s Just for You
Most of us spend our days in reaction mode, responding to work, texts, errands, other people’s energy.
Living intentionally means reclaiming a piece of your day for you.
What would that look like?
- Working on the creative project you’ve put on hold
- Prepping food so your future self feels supported
- Journaling your thoughts, dreams, or doubts
- Moving your body in a way that feels like freedom
It doesn’t have to be big or perfect. It just has to be consistent and just for you.
Because when you take aligned action daily, no matter how small, you stop surviving and start creating.
6. Reclaim Your Everyday Life
Living intentionally isn’t about overhauling your whole world overnight. It’s about presence. It’s about making one thoughtful decision today, and letting that decision guide you toward more aligned ones tomorrow.
You’re allowed to crave more joy.
You’re allowed to upgrade your life.
You’re allowed to choose again, and again, and again.
So take radical responsibility.
Let go of what no longer reflects you.
Step into what does.
Because this is your life. And you are the one who gets to shape it, one small shift at a time.
Live Life On Your Terms
What’s one thing you’ll swap out this week because it no longer reflects who you are or who you’re becoming?
Be bold. Be brave. Be intentional.
After all, this is your life we’re talking about.
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